It is Pinewood Derby time around here. Consider this the Indy 500 of the Cub Scout world. My middle guy and his dad have been working hard on his Pinewood Derby Car; taking a small rectangular block of wood and whittling (or sawing and Dremeling) it into a unique and hopefully fast race car.
But truthfully, it doesn’t really matter how it looks, if it is fast or if it wins.
Because what they have really being doing, what it is really all about, is spending time together. Deepening their bond. Making memories. Teaching. Learning.
That is what really matters.
What could possibly mean more to a little boy than to have his small hand engulfed in the hand of his daddy as he helps him guide the saw and shows him “how to do it”.
“No man stands so tall as when he stoops to help a child.” – Abraham Lincoln
When his father’s actions say …
You matter to me. Your interests matter to me. I am busy but I am not too busy for you.
When his guidance and patience send the message …
I am here to do what you can’t but I will show you how to do what you can.
And trust you to do it.
When his teaching shows that with a little teamwork, cooperation, and persistence a plain block of wood will become something amazing.
When the gift of his time reminds his son …
You are part of a team. Loved. And your dad is on your side.
So Jesus said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of his own accord, but only what he sees the Father doing. For whatever the Father does, that the Son does likewise.” John 5:19